Younger Men Who Desire Older Women
Thursday, January 31, 2008
The questions and comments from young men who desire older women keep coming. They crave older women. They revere older women. And yes, they find older women incredibly sexy.
I'm not talking about age differences of five or ten years - I mean decades. Here are some samples from my email and from comments on my other blog posts:
* I am 19 years old and love older women. They are much sexier than anything else I can imagine. It's the feeling of that they have so much to teach you sexually. I have had sex with an older woman and would do it again in a heartbeat.
* I'm male, 27, and just this Christmas had a brief encounter with a mature woman. It was wonderful. We met via internet dating, a good way to meet like-minded people, and she actually approached me first. It just so happens I like older women and she likes men around my age. We had an amazing day and later on she joined me at a hotel. It was like a fantasy come true. Amazing company, amazing sex too and a really warm and loving woman. She will turn 43 this month, and my goodness what a connection we had that day.
* I am 26 and have no problem getting dates with women my age. I'm a young professional and have confidence in my abilities with women my age. However, I am incredibly attracted to older women. I find such beauty in maturity. I work in a professional environment where I am around professional older women all the time. I can't help but fantasize about them. There is something about a woman who is well versed, educated, smart, and mature that drives me wild. Is this wrong? And if it's not, do older women even take men my age seriously?
* I wish I could find an older woman who doesn't say I am too young to have sex with her. I am 21 by the way.
* I am a 49 year old single man, and I have always been fond of sex with older ladies. In all honesty they drive me wild. I have no interest in any ladies younger than me. Presently have a few senior neighbours.... jeez I only wish.
Some of the younger men who write tell me that their first sexual experience was with a much older woman, and they still treasure the experience:
* I lost my virginity to a woman who was 59 and it was brilliant. She was old enough to be my grandmother and I had known her since I was 5 or 6. I know many people will read this and think that I am making this up but I'm truly not. I loved having sex with her.
* I have always been attracted to older women. I had short relationships with a 60-something-year-old woman when I was 15; a 40-ish woman when I was19; and a woman in her late 30's when I was 21. For me it was a way to have sex, enjoy sex, learn about sex, and experience the whole thing in a sincere, loving way, in a stress-free atmosphere. It was so nice to make love to someone who was calm, enjoyed the experience and could be trusted. A bonus for me was that my older lovers expressed being flattered at being desired by an attractive young man. It felt great to be in this princely or studly role. I'm now 50 and have been married 27 years to my best friend. I find her even more attractive as she gets older, and she likes this.
* I'm 18. I just recently completed a life-long dream of having an older woman take my virginity and teaching me the ways. The only thing is it was a one-time deal but now I'm hooked on older women. I love their maturity and knowledge.
I often hear from single women who complain that men their age are seeking younger women and don't seem to value what an older woman brings to a relationship, both in and out of bed. These comments from young men show an interesting flip of the coin, don't you think? Of course I'm not recommending staking out the local teen center to get a date, but don't rule out mature young men who express interest in you, if you feel interest and attraction, also.
I'm posting these comments today to invite more discussion from young men in this situation, older men remembering these experiences, and from women of all ages. I look forward to reading your thoughts.
Learn more about her book, Better Than I Ever Expected: Straight Talk about Sex After Sixty (Seal Press, 2006).
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Joan Price
An advocate for elder sexuality
Guess I'm a Cougar
I love younger men. I have dated only men at least 10 years younger and as much as 17 years younger than me for many years. I love the energy and a nice tight bod. Older men just aren't the same, different mentality. I seem to have more in common with younger guys. They're actually more fun and are usually more interested in me. I'm flattered. I think younger men like cougars because they have no agenda, don't usually want to get married and are usually very independent and don't need a man to take care of them. I meet younger men on this website:
http://www.hotcougardating.com/
Younger Men, Older Women
I love how much attention this particular blog post continues to receive! I've been posting about this topic on my main blog, too. See http://betterthanieverexpected.blogspot.com/2009/06/younger-men-seeking-..., for example.
I don't like all the advertising comments that are appearing here -- I hope you're all ignoring them. Our discussion has nothing to do with handbags or jewelry.
Joan Price, http://www.joanprice.com/
Author, Better Than I Ever Expected: Straight Talk about Sex After Sixty
Join us talking about elder sexuality at http://www.betterthanieverexpected.com
Enjoy younger men
How can I really explain the feeling I get from younger men. They are so genuinely loving,kind,attractive,sexually pleasing,energetic,always ready to please and always appreciative of being loved...physically and emotionally...Any ideas of where I can find a younger man that wants the same in an older woman of 46.....are you out there? write me..mustluvhorses123 [at] yahoo [dot] com
Cougars are in!
I love the post! I'm curious to see more comments from the younger guys!
The Cougar
http://thecougar.wordpress.com
hi
i am 18 boy and loves younger woman
i adores them all the time
one thing to take care in such a relationship is to give her the respect she deserves because of her age
you have to take care of all the things but older women are both sexually attractive and with high sexual appetite
i have seen that women grow hornier when they grow older
so here is a toy boy and there is a sugar mom
Looking for older female
Im 18 I find older women very attractive when i was 16 i was dating an older women i met online she was 32 at the time but she didnt want to keep on going untill i was legal age, im 18 single looking for older women im 5.9 149bl lightskin hispanic shoort hair very active enjoy alot of things like to travel, i work from 9-5 in a law firm as a receptionist and as an assistant,liveing currently living in new york anything else you would like to know send me a msg on aim at Jaysocool2 anybody else know where to meet older women? like free websites?
Works for me
I am 49 ...I have always like younger men since my divorce. My neibor's son would come over and help me do chores and i would pay him..he was 16 and I kept myself above reproach and had him leave at dusk or if I was drinking..when he turned 18 he was waiting for me as I came home from work...he wated to come in the house and I turned him down...I told his mother about his advances and she told me I needed to take him on...well 3 months later I did and after moving away for 6 months i realized he ment a lot more to me and I to him...He is 19 and living with me...He is the kindest most caring man I have ever been with...His family totally accepts the realtionship and I am going to keep him as long as he will stay. Not sure what the longevity of this union will be but I am happy and so is he...He said he had a crush on me since 16...I call him my peter pan as he keeps me young at heart...
LOOKING
Hello everyone my name is michael but most of my friend's called me chael, i have been hearing about dating sugar mommies and all that but i have no idea of what it like because am really interested in it and i hope to meet one in one day to have a good time with , looking now ok see ya soon................
My father is younger than my
My father is younger than my mother with 4 years and one of the sure results is the fact that I was born. Indeed, I don't believe in the relation ships where the difference is bigger then 20 years, but when there is such a small one then there is no problem.
The Ultimate 19th Century Feminist
Do any of you know that Jennie Jerome Churchill, Winston Churchill's mother (Yes! He who saved England and most of Europe during WWII!), was married to two younger men? A handful of years after the death of her first husband Lord Randolph Churchill, in 1900, when she was 46 years of age, she married 26 year-old George Cornwallis-West. They separated 12 years later and divorced. Afterwards, in 1918, when she was 64 years old she married 41 year-old Montague Porch. She died in 1921 at 67 due to a fall she took and amputation of one of her legs.
There was a famous quote by a British aristocrat that Lady Churchill "was more panther than woman." I LIKE THAT COMING FROM A BRITISH MAN!!!
WHAT A LIFE SHE HAD!!! AND REMEMBER - THIS WAS BACK IN THE LATE 19TH CENTURY AND EARLY 20TH CENTURY!!!
MY HERO JENNIE!!!